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Today I have some great meetings and a killer proposal to finish… Thank you God for progress!! OK people…any relationship and sex questions…hit me up!

Bring a friend, Meet your mate!!

Serious and fun!!??
When most people talk about someone, event or thing as being serious the first thought that immediately comes to mind is that they are boring, dry or uninteresting. But that does not have to be and often is not the case. Let’s be honest; no one wants to be around people who cannot have fun and are “strictly business”. However, being about business does not mean you cannot have fun. In fact, when I reflect back on the most meaningful and enjoyable times in my adult life they were whimsical but usually well planned. For instance, my trips to Disneyland with my daughter, sharing a great meal with family, or shaking my tail on the dance floor with friends were the source of my much fun and celebration. Yet these moments were no less important than any exam I have taken or presentation I spent hours on for work. Not all enjoyable moments were spontaneous; many required hours of creative thought and the results were absolutely special. Simply said, I take my fun seriously as I am sure you do too.
So are you serious about meeting that special someone? I think I hear you saying “hell yes!” Are you ready to laugh till your belly hurts and smile until your cheeks burn all the while you are meeting other fantastic people? YES, Yes and yes… then “Catch” is the place for you. Our members are savvy sexy mature single adults who are serious about meeting someone to have a meaningful long-term relationship. Just bring a friend of the opposite sex who you think is a good catch and enjoy an extraordinary evening of some serious fun.
See ya there!

Sex & Love Raw Uncut
With
Troy Rawlings
BUTTERFLIES!!!

Q:
“Hey Troy
I haven’t dated in 3 years. Kind of took a break, and I haven’t really been looking to get into a relationship. But I met this man, and I instantly fell in love. Funny thing is he doesn’t fit the bill visually of a man I would normally date. Three things: Dark complexion, West Indian, and 53! Yes, 53!!! LOL
But he swept me off my feet, and I am falling quick and fast and we haven’t even kissed yet! That’s deep; at least for me!

He is so much more mature, and really I am very child like. I’m silly and youthful. I don’t want to get hurt or get my heart broken… But I can’t control what I am feeling. I’ve been too embarrassed to share this with anyone. Plus I want to see where it is going before I let anyone in.
I am so scared!”
Signed Ms. Butterflies

A:
No problem Sista’ … this is what I do. Don’t be scared girl!
I happen to be writing an article in my Sex & Love column called
“Butterflies”…I always tell people that they had better be GIDDY, and
EXCITED and HEAD OVER HEELS over someone you’re courting or thinking
about being in a relationship with…especially a long term relationship! It
had better start that way! Or else, what kind of foundation is there?

That child like bliss of being caught up, be it “Fairytale” like or not, is
necessary baby. I believe you need that attraction to build from.
Because as you get to know each other, start seeing each other more
often, after the first kiss, making out, and sex…you start to “Settle in more”

Now only you know you best…so you know if you’re the type that falls
Hard. Or the type that loves passionate intimacy when you want it. You know if you are spontaneous with your feelings and emotions or not.

There are no assurances in love. Sometimes because of past hurts and pains
we try to keep our guard up to never be HURT like THAT again. But nothing on
earth makes you more vulnerable than love. So to truly experience LOVE,
you have to open up your heart knowing that love does come with
some serious pain attached at times…IE childbirth LOL

All that to say 3 very important things:

1. ASK – You have not because you ask not, You don’t know because you
didn’t ask, never assume anything! Ask the hard questions. Life is too
precious, and sometimes too short. What do you have to lose…ask –
STD’s, Marriages, Kids, Criminal charges, attracted to men, favorite
position, do you like your mother …any hard question you can think of
ask. What this does is get rid of unneeded mystery about the person
you’re falling for. ASK.

2. TELL – Answer your questions and theirs. Most of all tell him what
you want for your future, and how you feel about him. See if you’re on
the same page right now?

3. FEEL – Baby don’t be afraid to Feel what you feel…when you feel it.
That’s how God made you. And you don’t have to hide it, just be ready
for the good, bad and wonderful that expressing your feelings to
someone can bring. Now it’s up to you when you do it, but be sure to be
honest at all costs.

That’s the best I can give you baby! Sometimes Lust and Love can wear
the same clothes LOL. So be honest with yourself about whether you’re
just horny baby!

I blame it on facebook!! I’m trying to come and talk to you guys daily but Facebook is my mistress!! Today i will be doing my World Famous Relationshit in the news, I’ll post another Sex & Love article and tomorrow we launch Catch…. what is Catch you ask….stay tuned Singles!!