I see some of you now with that “Huh…WTF??” look on your face! Believe it or not this question isn’t that strange for some people. In a world where we have network TV shows like “Cheaters” and the divorce rate continues to sky rocket, there are folks that even though they’re unhappy…they’re trying everything to keep their “Marriage” together.
Once you’ve built a household with someone, property, history, and sometimes children the choice to leave because of unhappiness is outweighed by your emotional, physical and financial investment in the relationship. So where as before I would say HELL NO it won’t help, someone out there may say “Troy it kept me from leaving!”
I’ve grown to know that everything is not cut and dry in life. The bigger thing is to ask “can I be happy in my marriage without a side dude or chick?” If the answer is NO then you have to evaluate why you’re there. You have to try to communicate with you’re spouse. Professional marriage and relationship counseling should be sought. Also, what is it that your “Sidepiece” gives you that your spouse doesn’t?
All in all, this choice to stay in your marriage or let it go will be yours. Weigh the pros and cons, try to be honest with your spouse about your feelings. If you haven’t left yet, there may be something greater than just property keeping you there.
Until Next Time,
God Bless, One Love
Troy
